tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5737706314714522014.post719376048886423742..comments2023-04-16T05:44:01.725-05:00Comments on ImNoBetterThanU: Incomprehensible governance...ImNoBetterThanUhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16696370663914005610noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5737706314714522014.post-924750462971575752008-05-18T15:56:00.000-05:002008-05-18T15:56:00.000-05:00Child custody and state agencies overseeing these ...Child custody and state agencies overseeing these cases are so annoying and flat out wrong in my opinion with the way they deal with situations like this. I am so sorry to hear the story you told, it infuriates me, to no end. Has he ever been taken back to court to review and/or revoke his court orders concerning visitations since this started occuring? I think that may be the only solution. Obviously, there should be well documented proof of the abuse and trauma these children have had to endure. With documentation of these activities, police reports, and CPS investigation records in hand-this should (no guarantees, of course) be proof enough to a judge that something should be changed in the current situation. I know from my experience with the Texas Attorney General's office that you can request a review of your case every three years at no cost to you. They will also represent you in court, instead of you having to hire an attorney. Just a suggestion, although I'm sure she has already done everything possible in Va to remedy the situation. I hope something changes because I've always been told that the mother's rights and father's rights are just that, they are rights-no matter what else is going on. If I do not allow the child to go with her father for scheduled visitation I am considered to be in contempt of court. Likewise, if the father doesn't pay child support, he is in contempt of court and will eventually have to repay the debt including interest. I have also always been told that there is no acceptable reason to alter the court ordered documents without first going back to court and having a judge modify those court orders. Wish her and the children good luck~what a tragic way to deal with an already unfortunate situation. Doesn't he realize his children already are the ones suffering-no, wait. He probably doesn't think much about anyone except himself. I will pray for good things to happen for this family. When we can all get along the kids reap tremendous benefits, even if we don't live together. My situation isn't the best, but my daughter knows love from both families she is a part of. Don't get me wrong-it was a long time coming and many times I just prayed real hard and then had to wait for the other party to grow up, mature, and think about the ramifications. Luckily, he finally did both and figured out what was best for our little girl-who isn't so little anymore. She is a teenager now~agghh, I'm getting old. Lol<BR/><BR/>Have a great day. I am glad your new job is going well-talk/type to you later!<BR/><BR/>~SarahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com